You’ve finally found someone you deeply connect with.
The chemistry is amazing! You haven’t felt this way in a long time. You’ve invested a lot of time and energy into this relationship. You’re compatible on SO many levels. So, this has to be it, right? All of the time, your energy and effort has finally paid off. The stars have aligned, the Universe has heard you.
But…there are some big issues.
You’re still not getting what you truly want.
Your needs aren’t being met.
Maybe he’s dragging his feet on committing to you and you don’t know how to bring it up.
Or you’re worried he’ll get defensive when you do, leaving you feeling unheard and misunderstood.
You’re concerned that he might not actually be over his ex…and worried you’re just an emotional crutch to get him through this
You’re wondering, is this worth it? You’re asking yourself, should you stay the course or run?
The truth is, you don’t really want to go.
If you could wave a magic wand…you’d make the relationship work. And you’re trying.
But it’s exhausting.
You’re feeling discouraged about the future of your relationship — and let’s face it, you don’t want to be “just dating” forever.
You really want to move to the next step, but where is it even going?
You’re tired of waiting for him to “be ready.” And what does ready even look like to him, anyway?
You’re seriously second guessing whether or not he wants to truly be with you or if you’re the rebound or worse….a booty call.
The uncertainty is maddening and a girl can only be patient for so long.
Still, there’s so much chemistry and attraction. You know he has feelings! Maybe the “L-word” has even come up – making it oh so hard for you to just throw in the towel now.
And you’re asking yourself: How can you possibly go into deeper levels of involvement with him when you’re feeling so conflicted?
You’re not alone.
Many smart, conscious women like you have gotten stuck on this very tough relationship question “Should I stay or go?” for months…or even years.
It’s unsettling to be in a relationship and feel like you have to question whether or not you’re wasting your time on a man who is possibly never going to commit.
It’s confusing when you don’t know the status of are we together, not together, or undefined.
It’s scary to know whether or not you should take a stand for what you really want and risk him walking away.
No one deserves to suffer in limbo or continue feeling stuck on any of those questions.