Hello there, beautiful soul, Have you ever caught yourself automatically saying ‘yes’ when deep down, a part of you was screaming ‘no’? It’s almost as if there’s a persistent voice nagging you and warning you into putting others’ happiness before your own. If this resonates with you, know that you’re not walking this path alone. […]
How to Stop Overthinking in Your Relationship
Years ago, I remember when I was leaving for Costa Rica for a couple of months and my boyfriend at the time had said goodbye to me in such a sad and withdrawn way. We already had a roller coaster relationship. But it really left me thinking about why he said it that way and […]
How to Get Him to Invest More in the Relationship
Dear Melissa, I keep running into non-committals! My dates are going great with this laid back warm and gentle kind man who I’m 100% attracted too. The chemistry is HOT and such a relief after my unloving marriage. He’s shared how crazy it feels to connect like we do. I have been seeing him for […]
How to Navigate the First 3 Dates So You Find Love Faster and Avoid Wasting Your Time
Have you ever spent hours on a first or second date, only to end up disappointed because you realize you’re not a match or he ghosts on you? Either way, it’s hard not to feel like you’ve wasted your time. It can weigh on your morale, start to make you feel jaded or tempted to […]
How to Tell If You’re “Too Picky” With Guys or Settling
“Am I being too picky with guys?” “How do I know if I’m settling??” I hear these questions in my client sessions often. These questions are very closely related because they stem from the same issue: unmet needs. If you’re passing on dating some men, it’s likely because you’ve seen or experienced with your date […]