Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about how to decide how long to wait for someone you’re in a relationship with to figure out what he wants. In my response, I provide guidance on how to approach this question, including what you need to know to decide […]
Dating a Divorced Man
My Boyfriend Still Has His Ex-Wife’s Stuff
Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) who’s concerned that her boyfriend still keeps his wedding band, among other items from his previous relationship. In my response, I provide guidance on how to approach this concern, including some reasons why he might be keeping the stuff, what you […]
Why Is He Pushing Me Away If He Loves Me?
Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about understanding why her boyfriend is pushing her away, especially if he’s talking about having a future together. In my response, I provide insight into what’s really going on, the emotional trap that she needs to avoid, and whether she should […]
Did I Scare Him Away?
Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about the concern that she scared her love interest away. In my response, I provide guidance on how to approach this concern, whether she actually scared him away, and whether she should pursue him to get him back.
Burned out in Your Relationship? Warning Signs and How to Avoid It
There was a time when my husband and I were dating where we almost broke it off. He was in the last few months of his divorce being final. It was the home stretch. We’d been through a lot together; what’s a few more months of waiting? But I was tired of waiting. Tired of […]
