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How Do You Know If You Can Trust Him?

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Dear Melissa, If your boyfriend’s friends are sexist and still like to “party” despite the fact that they’re in their 40’s now, can you ever really trust him around them or entirely respect him for choosing to associate with such people? – Ulrika

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His Ex-Wife’s Stuff Is Still in the House. Does He Still Have Feelings for His Ex?

His Ex Wife's Stuff Is Still In The House. Does He Still Have Feelings For His Ex?

Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about what to do when your man still has photos of his ex on Facebook and still has some of his ex’s belongings. Does it mean that he hasn’t moved on?   In my response, I provide guidance on how to […]

Filed Under: Ask Melissa, Dating a Divorced Man, Dating Advice in General

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When a Guy Says He Needs Time to Think, What Does That Mean?

when he says he needs time to think

Does the man you’re dating still have “unfinished business” with his ex-wife even though they’ve been divorced for a while? You thought that you were in the clear because he’s divorced. And then he tells you one of the worst things a man you’re totally into could tell you: He “needs some time apart” so […]

Filed Under: Dating a Divorced Man, Dating Advice in General

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You Shouldn’t Need To Choose Between Your Children And Partner

You Shouldn’t Need To Choose Between Your Children And Partner

Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about whether she has to choose between being a mother or being a woman, and whether it’s realistic for her to require her boyfriend to take both her and her children, even though he hinted that he’d rather the kids be […]

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Am I Being Unreasonable for Wanting More Time With My Boyfriend?

Am I being unreasonable by wanting more time with my boyfriend

Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about whether she is being unreasonable by wanting more time with her boyfriend and more predictability in her relationship. In my response, I provide guidance on how to approach this question, including how to reduce the anxiety around the lack of […]

Filed Under: Ask Melissa, Dating a Man Going through a Divorce, Dating a Single Dad, Dating Advice in General

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How Long Should You Wait for Him to Commit? (And How to Know When You’ve Waited Long Enough)

Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about how to know if you’ve waited long enough in a relationship when you’re waiting for someone to resolve some issues in their life so they can go into deeper levels of involvement and commitment with you.

Filed Under: Ask Melissa, Dating a Man Going through a Divorce, Dating a Single Dad

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What to Do When He’s Not over His Ex (But He Still Wants to See You)

Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about what to do when you’re deeply involved with someone, maybe even in love with them, but it’s become apparent that they’re not over their ex. In my response, I provide guidance on how to approach this question when you’re already involved […]

Filed Under: Ask Melissa, Dating Advice in General, Self-Care and Boundaries

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How to Get off the Emotional Roller Coaster and Date from a Centered Place

As we begin a new year, I wanted to send you a note of love, hope and encouragement for the path that you’re on right now in your dating life. Whether you’re single, dating or in a relationship…whether it’s blissful, complicated or both, you probably have a lot of hopes — and expectations — for […]

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How Long Should I Wait for Him to Figure out What He Wants?

Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) about how to decide how long to wait for someone you’re in a relationship with to figure out what he wants. In my response, I provide guidance on how to approach this question, including what you need to know to decide […]

Filed Under: Ask Melissa, Dating a Divorced Man, Dating a Single Dad

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My Boyfriend Still Has His Ex-Wife’s Stuff

Today’s article is in response to a question from a reader (via Ask Melissa!) who’s concerned that her boyfriend still keeps his wedding band, among other items from his previous relationship. In my response, I provide guidance on how to approach this concern, including some reasons why he might be keeping the stuff, what you […]

Filed Under: Ask Melissa, Dating a Divorced Man, Dating a Man Going through a Divorce

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